Responding to hate with hate does nothing to extinguish the evil. Who is hated, is likely to conflict with their enemies, or turn away, but this remains a temporary solution, however, because the contempt remains, even if hidden. If an insult these reactions, will follow another, from another source, to the point that we would be forced to deal with this alone, wasting our time better when they are born as the war, where the best young people are sacrificed. Similarly, if you react away from enemies, it means only become lonely and still alive inside the injuries received, which will continue to act ransacking and destroying our memories and our thoughts, without which there is an overall improvement. The solution is really just hatred to transform feelings into their opposite, that is love. Who hates us and feel hated, and will continue to impact will increase as insistent our reaction. If hatred is not explicitly expressed but kept secret, in fact emerge, and you'll see the same, because the enemies would expect to find in us a person like them, not indifference. There is nothing concealed that will not be discovered. But anyway if we react by showing indifference to contempt, the enemies will continue to strike, or to act against someone else, thinking they do not cause any damage. A conflict is resolved only when you have a friendly attitude toward the opponent, and that's when you are able to understand his way of being. A person who in his past has met many people and various types of people, can in fact much more than others, to establish themselves and dominate, winning greater social power, and finding no reason for conflict with anyone, has affection for all. This means we need to notice what the others are still children, because this makes us understand the limitations and weaknesses. In fact the best ambassadors for their children when there are conflicts as they are the most vulnerable and innocent victims when these conflicts are not resolved. A bad man because he is such a childish side that no one can see and discover. If it manages to be bad, this is certainly the case since he was a child and no one has ever managed to educate him. To know and understand the weaknesses of the opponent, you must know, dating, discover the history, the past, what it should be ashamed or embarrassed, because this is precisely the source of conflict. This creates conflict when there is enough shame, as he becomes a victim when you are ashamed to do things which are not to blame. But when you stop the bridges and we will close and you act like a stranger, you create the conditions for misunderstanding and conflict increases and becomes impossible to understand what is the solution. The Catholic Church has instituted the sacrament of Confession for this purpose, namely to refer to some of our weaknesses or those that we should consider tali.Chi lives by the sword, perish by the sword. Who believes, also will be judged, and with the same method. It is often best left to feel satisfied that the unfair and shared, and tired to pursue an aim which has become too easy, where the only satisfaction is, if anything, the ban itself. This explains the Gospel where Jesus said: Who pulls a slap, turn the other cheek. Who steals your coat, the coat also.
The power comes from belonging to a group. In order to do something you need the cooperation of other people. Becoming a victim of hate is a result of being alone, have little connection to those who have our own faults. Nobody is perfect in all there is an Achilles heel. The capacity to love is a paternal attitude, which is able to exploit the child side of others. Those who know us from an early age, can control the infantile and stupid side of our behavior.
Two people quarrel when they are together by constraint.
Who will offend offended. Whoever does it will harm the victim. You can avoid becoming victims of the mistakes of others, simply to avoid repeating them.
A person capable of loving, he turns his love equally to all, but favors those lucky enough to stay near potergli.
If a man has power with which to defend ourselves, injustices occur when there turn away. You have protection only if we remain within the its radius of influence.
The need to use force takes over when there is no ability to make use of reason.
long as there is a loser, did not end the war.
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